人與人相處，要互相體諒、互相容忍，不可因別人做錯事，就嚴厲指責，厭惡他、排擠他，甚至與他誓不兩立，這是凡夫的想法與做法。反之，見他人有過失，應體諒他、同情他、關懷他、容忍他，這樣才能使他自覺慚愧，進而改過，斷除不良習氣。
To get along with people, one should be understanding and tolerant of others. On people’s wrong doings, never sternly accuse them, detest them, push them out from friends’ circle, or even treat them as an enemy, since all such behaviors are of ordinary people’s thinking and action. On the contrary, on any one’s wrong doings, if we can have understanding, be forgiving, and have sympathy toward them, care about and be tolerant with them, then they would have a chance to feel shameful and correct the faults and break off their undesirable habits.
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